28 silver patronage
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FIG 6 The Calverley Toilet Service, 1683–84, William Fowle (1658–84), London, silver wood and glass, ht of mirror 51.8cm, Victoria and Albert Museum, London Photo: © Victoria and Albert Museum, London
Hogarth’s Marriage A-la-Mode series of 1743–45, and also during the official lying-in, when an aristocratic mother would receive guests in a state bed following the birth of a child.
Toilet services were often presented by the groom or members of his family on the occasion of a woman’s marriage. For instance, in 1707, Sir Walter Calverley, first baronet, and his mother purchased a second-hand toilet service comparable to the Duchess of Somerset’s by William Fowle and hallmarked for 1683 (Fig. 6), for Calverley’s bride, Julia Blackett of Wallington Hall in Northumberland (1686–1736).22 Similarly, when the third Duke of Buccleuch married Lady Elizabeth Montagu (1743–1827) in 1767, his mother and aunts supplied the new duchess’s ‘dressing plate’, which they ordered from Thomas Heming: ‘’Twas agreed to be the same as that which the Princess of Wales had presented to the Queen of Denmark [sister of George III] when She left England, with some additions. The cost near seven hundred pounds’.23 Assuming it was silver-gilt, as are most other examples from this period, the Buccleuch service would at that price have weighed over 1,000 ounces, which was prodigious.24 By comparison, the service thought to have been presented by one of the 18th century’s greatest consumers of silver, George
Booth, second Earl of Warrington, to his daughter Mary, Countess of Stamford (1704–72), on her 50th birthday in 1754, weighed only 731 ounces (Fig. 7).25
A toilet service was generally treated as being the wife’s possession during her lifetime, though she was not necessarily free to dispose of it as she wished upon her death. When, for instance, Maria Shireburn, Duchess of Norfolk (c. 1693–1754), separated from her husband, Thomas Howard, the eighth duke, in 1715 she was allowed to keep the toilet service by Benjamin Pyne of 1708 – it had, after all, been given to her by her own father – but it was to revert to the Howards once she was dead.26 Lady Stamford was in a far more fortunate position, and not only because she was in a loving and mutually respectful marriage with Harry Grey, fourth Earl of Stamford. Her father, Lord Warrington, left his estates in trust for her benefit, a common means among the wealthy of protecting a wife’s interests and effectively putting her in the same position as a widow or an unmarried woman.27 She also maintained control of the silver she brought into the marriage, including a cup and cover of c. 1705 by Isaac Liger, which bears her native arms in a lozenge and must have been a christening present (Fig. 8). On her death in 1772, the countess had 2,700 ounces of plate, in addition